That capacity is a hallmark of what I would call a ‘post-patriarchal masculinity’ — one that does not seek to dominate with ‘better ideas’, but that seeks to learn.

But not of post-patriarchal femininity? Or simply human decency? So the search continues for something masculine about it. You are refusing to address the issue because you can’t. Feign all the indignation you want. I have posed a serious question, and you have ducked it.

I’ll look elsewhere for substance.