But this isn't a thing that happens more often when non-discrimination laws are in place. ... It's not a straw man to bring that up - it's what years of data indicate is the case.

I don't trust the data because the information environment has changed. Publicity brings out bad actors.

And as I also already said, you've already got conduct and fraternizatiom rules in the miliary.

How's that working out? These rules are workarounds for a "straight male only" force. The idea that they can be applied "where necessary" strikes me as quaint.