I don’t know who the “we” is in “we are in this together.”
But you seem to know who the “you” is throughout your rant. Well, it ain’t me, babe.
BLM is a Marxist movement created by folks who have figured out that “anti-racist” plays better than “anti-fascist.” There is nothing BLM agitators say about white people that Bolsheviks didn’t say about the bourgeoisie. It’s all an exercise in cut-and-paste totalitarianism.
So, yes, there are White allies, only they are best labeled what they are — sputniks, useful idiots.
Black lives do matter. Just not to BLM.