"now seems as good a time as any to discuss why I criticize the democratic party more than I do Donald Trump and the republicans."

Now is exactly the WRONG time to justify those criticisms. Everything you are saying now you could and probably did say BEFORE Biden got the nomination and can and probably will say AFTER he wins the Presidency. But RIGHT NOW, you need to go silent. Please. So that there will be a country left for you to fix. You can't unnominate Biden; you can just suppress his turn-out. That is reality, Deal with it.

(Full-ish disclosure: I’m a conservative Never-Trumper who is voting Blue no matter who.)