We need to define feminism.

Why? Seriously. Why does the label matter? You believe what you believe, say what you say, and do what you do.

Bill Cosby, when people still thought well of him, had a joke about naming his kids. He said he sent them out to play, and whatever the other kids called them, that was their name. That's how feminism works. You live your life, and others decide whether the word fits you in some context in which they think it relevant. No baggage need come with it.